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youknowyouareasurvivorwhen:

You can’t talk about your problems at ALL without phrasing it as a joke or otherwise adding something funny in there, because you still think that anything bad that happens to you isn’t a REAL problem and therefore shouldn’t be “whined” about. 

bigenderjanecrocker said: Is it normal to be afraid that I'm making up my own abuse? Like, that it isn't real and never was and I just made it up to explain my problems but I can't remember when I made it up or can't even tell that I'm making it up?

youknowyouareasurvivorwhen:

Oh hell yes. I constantly have this fear, even now. Somehow I must be lying to myself about it and don’t even know it. That’s what I tell myself.

I think it’s really common because it’s something horrific enough that it’s hard for the brain to even process it. Hell, this has happened to me with other things that aren’t related to the abuse, things others can confirm for me happened. Even those seem hard to believe, because it’s really mentally hard to come to terms with horrifying and traumatic things.

The brain wants these things to be made up because it’s easier to cope with the idea that we’re liars than to cope with people who were supposed to love us hurting us.

So yes, this is definitely a thing.

vasilyt:

Day&Night
V. Yrgumov

vasilyt:

Day&Night

V. Yrgumov

tentacletherapissed:

buzzfeed:

These people are doin’ Halloween right. 

you can be clever with your halloween costume WITHOUT having to resort to “edgy” and “ironic” racism! wow!!!!!

sunshinedaydre4m:

LOOK AT HOW FUCKING CUTE THIS ELEPHANT IS

sunshinedaydre4m:

LOOK AT HOW FUCKING CUTE THIS ELEPHANT IS